Has your boyfriend/girlfriend ever cheated on you before?
Heya playas, this is a special edition of The Josh Speaks. Now what’ I’ve gotten is a lot of relationship questions from you guys so I figured, why only hear me talk. Let’s get a female perspective on it. So this is my friend Adonica, she’s gonna answer some of your questions here today. This is The Josh Speaks. You’re watching The Josh Speaks. So the question we’re going to answer today is why do you think people cheat on each other? I think it has to do a lot with insecurities.
Like I’ve seen instances of people that I’ve known where they have cheated because they feel that the person they’re with is gonna leave them and they want to find somebody to replace that person rather than be alone. It’s instant self gratification and you don’t think about, like, what happens after. Is it possible for someone to have a relationship with someone else and be understood between them that they’re mutually cheating on each other but they still love each other. That’s called an open relationship. I mean, if it works for them, then great but normally one of the people out of that couple, they’re gonna get hurt. It you guys were wondering, this is orange juice.
It’s not orange juice anymore it’s empty juice. Empty juice. Empty juice. Like I give the example of being at a concert and seeing that amazing guitarist or oh my god, that guy who’s playing base or the shirtless man playing drums. And he comes up to you after the show and is like “I’m gonna rock your fucking socks”. In that situation, do you think then that it’s easier for people to be drawn to cheat? Well some couples do have that whole like, you know, they they jokingly talk about it cause it’ll never really happen but you have your celebrity cheat card.
Where it’s sort of like (I agree). Well, I love you but, if Megan Fox asked me to fuck her I’m going to. I really feel that if you’re content and you really care about the person, that you have at home then you wouldn’t just go off and do something like that. Why am I at a concert by myself? Where’s my boyfriend? Where’s the boyfriend at this concert and this shirtless drummer is trying to woo your girl. Where the fuck are you? So let’s say you discover that your partner cheats on you. Do you think it’s rightfully so to go out and cheat on them to make it even? I think that’s ridiculous. So if you’re going out to cheat to make it even, like, it’s kind of very junior high-ish and like it doesn’t make it even.
It may make you feel better, it may make you feel better for the moment but it’s totally gonna cause more problems. If I get cheated on I’d rather it be an impulse cheat like it was Megan Fox’s lookalike as opposed to where you’re secretly having like another relationship with somebody else. What does a person in that situation, how do they think? Ever 16 year old girl wants to get their belly button pierced because they know they’re not allowed to. Same way when a guy see’s a hot girl, he’s gonna want her even more because he know’s he’s not allowed to.
I feel it does happen more with men because men do have that instinct in them to constantly hunt and you know, win something. Let’s say you are a 3rd party and there’s a couple that’s there. Now you find (I think I know where you’re going with this). Do you think it’s rightfully so for you to destroy that relationship just because you want yours? Do you homewreck? (No). Be honest! (No). How would you feel if you were in her shoes? Or if, let’s say. He does leave her, go with you. How do you think he’s gonna treat you once he gets tired of you?
Don’t be stupid about it, you know it’s gonna come back to you. Karma’s a bitch. She’ll fuck you sideways. So the responsibility ultimately comes back to the person in the relationship, not so much the person trying to get with them. (Exactly). I like, choose to respect the fact that when people say they’re in a relationship, they’re in a relationship. I don’t want that. Nobody wants drama. I hate drama. Drama sucks.
I hate when cheaters win. Like when you’re playing Monopoly. They’re like hoarding all these things, no. It’s not cool. That’s when you flip the board and like break the lights and run out. (Throw it over). This game is bullshit!
As always guys, love and peace.