Heya playas, have you ever started talking to a girl only to have things flat line? What did you do wrong? What do you say to her? Don’t worry, because today I’m gonna share with you a few ways to know when a girl is losing interest in you.
This question was asked by Thea Huon and I would have to say that communication is the most important factor in a growing relationship.
You message her, she messages you and it’s a back and forth cycle where you both are talking to each other. But, if the full on conversations are being reduced to words like “yep” “haha” and “cool”, then that means they’re getting boring. When this happens there’s an easy way to bring these conversations back to life, but first you have to stop saying things like “what’s up?” and “how’s your day going?” Instead, try asking more fun questions like “What would you do with a million dollars?” or “If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go?
Asking questions that will elicit some kind of emotion and are larger than the spectrum of, “well I did A, B, and C today” are the kind of conversation you want to have. What about in cases where she just doesn’t respond at all? For example, let’s say you see her on Facebook and send her a message but doesn’t respond and then just signs off. Look it’s the 21st century, I don’t care who you are. When you get a message on Facebook you either talk to the person or you intentionally ignore them. Maybe I’m a little extreme here but I just don’t buy the excuse of “Oh, I must have missed it”.
So if you find yourself getting ignored, don’t purposely like her photos or leave comments here and there with the hope that she’ll see them. And whatever you do, do not continuously message her over and over again saying “Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey are you there, hey, hey”. That should cover the online world, but when you’re in person, another huge reason why a girl loses interest in a guy is because he doesn’t make a move.
Guys get nervous around the girl they like and they spend all their time in their own head waiting for the right opportunity to do something. But most guys freeze up and then when she see’s that you’re spending more time being fearful of doing it rather than doing it, she get’s bored. I’m showing him that I like him, when is he just gonna kiss me already? Uh, this is so boring, what am I doing here waiting? What she’s waiting for you to do is display more alpha male qualities. If you want to learn more about alpha males and how to be one, check out my video right here. That could mean asking her out or kissing her.
Do something active that shows her that you like her. What do you guys think though, have you ever had a girl or guy lose interest in you? Leave your comments below so we can talk about it. All in all, you have to remember to be fun and engaging because that will keep a girl’s attention much better than doing and saying the same boring stuff that every other guy does. Dare to be different because if she see’s that you’re having a good time, chances are that she will too.