If your friends have ever told your crush that you like them, this is a GOOD thing for you. Use that power to finally be the first step in your approach to talking to them. It’s tough when you’re shy at school but people are attracted to confidence, something you will gain if you can push yourself (with my helpful words) to not just talk about it, but to BE about it!
Do you have a crush on someone that you don’t want to be shy around?
Sigh, it’s allergy season. Heya playas, have you ever told your friends in secret that you like someone only to have them blab it out to the entire school? The worst part is when the person you like finds out. And when that happened your left asking the question what can I do want to make it all go away?
Now although this may seem like a bad idea this is really the catalyst that you need to put things in motion. Before you told anyone anything you liked that person right? You would check out their pictures on Facebook, you would stare at them in class. If you never truly envisioned yourself with them or planned on asking them out than what was it all for?
If everyone already knows then this is finally you reason to do it. Often at times people want to know how to not be shy around their crush but I say scrap that, learn how to be confident around them. Now that they know that you like then there’s one of three potential thoughts running through their head.
One, he likes me but I don’t really know who he is. If your crush doesn’t know who you are then now is your grand opportunity to create your perfect entrance. This is where you have to be confident and introduce yourself.
Besides with all the news buzzing around about whether or not you’re gonna ask her out she’s going to be sitting there wondering whether or not this new mysterious guy is gonna actually do it. So do it! Two. He likes me but I don’t really like him back. If this is the case then yea it sucks. But don’t be discouraged by it. If you’ve heard it through the grapevine that they don’t like you then take it with a grain of salt unless you hear directly from their mouth, everything everyone else says doesn’t matter.
You could still use this opportunity to eliminate all awkwardness by just saying yea I have feelings for you and I’m not afraid to say it. If they say they don’t like you back then it’s done. No more awkwardness. Both of you were open and honest with your feelings so now you can actually move on.
Number three, he likes me but i’m not sure if I like him too. Trust me what I say this, this is the situation that works best for you. It may have started as a joke when your friends spread the news but you still like them so now you gotta give them a reason to like you back.
Introduce yourself, be confident in your approach, and start every conversation with the smile. Does this give you big ass brownie points, you bet it does! That person’s gonna see that you’re not shaken up by what’s happened and that you actually own up to how you feel. Now that makes you looks so much better.
So what’s your situation, do you have a crush on someone that you don’t want to be shy around? Leave your comments below so we can talk about it. There’s absolutely no reason why you should be shy around your crush. We all have crushes and sometimes it’s better left just kept that way. But if you actually like your crush and want to go out with them then just follow the rules that I outlined.
Trust me, once you get past that initial stage of fear and you start having regular conversations with them it gets so much easier.
As always guys, love and peace.