Heya playas, have you ever liked a girl but then been too scared to talk to her. And suddenly you friend comes along and goes blabbing it to the whole school. Oh my god. Well, it’s not the end of the world. In fact it could actually be a good thing. I’ll explain why after this.
Our first natural reaction when we find out that our crush knows that we like them is fear, it’s really scary because things are getting really real right now.
Where as before it was just some kind of fantasy that no one could take away from us but now that they know, what if they don’t like us back? Oddly enough, most of the time we prefer to have our crush hidden away because if it’s hidden, then none can tell us that it won’t happen. But now that it’s all out there, it’s time to perform some damage control. First things first. You should probably sit down with your friend and talk to them about what happened. I know that it sounds scary for your crush to know that you liked them and you might feel like your friend sabotaged you, but chances are they probably did it because they wanted to try to help you out. I mean think about it, would you rather have stepped up otherwise?
Would you? Really? If you really feel hurt then letting your friend know that they violated your trust and while it’s not the end of the world, I your crush and they violated your trust, it’s not the end of the world but it is something that was not cool for them to do. Ok, you and your friend have squared off. Now let’s think about why your crush knowing is so embarrassing. It’s never wrong to have a crush on someone, regardless if they’re a senior and you’re a freshman or they’re one of the cool kids and you’re not. We all have different kinds of feelings and you should never feel ashamed of the ones that are yours.because I mean it’s true, you like them right? Say it loud and say it proud. I like [INSERT NAME HERE).
So you’ve accepted how you feel but the kids at school keep making fun of you for it. Let’s really look at what’s going on here? I mean, you stood up to the dean confidently and agreed they would probably get bored and stop doing it. Bullies only feel powerful when the person they’re bullying gives them power, so just rip it right out from under them and just confidently agreeing. And finally, what do you do about your crush, I mean, now that they know, what’s gonna happen? I’ll tell you what’s gonna happen, you’re gonna ask her out. Let this be the fire under your butt that makes you stand up and do it. And I don’t mean just telling her how you feel and waiting to see how she feels back, I mean giving her a reason to like you. In this video here, I’lI explain why it’s a bad idea to tell your crush why you like them.
But if you are confident in your approach, don’t back down when she asks you how you feel and you push forward to ask her out for a date, You’re gonna succeed. What do you guys think though? Has your best friend ever told your crush that you like them? Leave a comment below so we can talk about it. If If she knows or doesn’t know or if she likes you already or doesn’t like you already, It’s not the end of the world, in fact it’s only the beginning. It’s out in the open, you like her. So today is the first day where you start your new plan on how you’re going to get with your crush. Because even though things may seem like they’re out of your control,
I know that deep down inside, you have the power to handle it just like awesome person that you are.