Heya playas, if you’re in middle school, high school or just trying to figure out whether a guy likes you. There are a number of things he does to show this off and it’s up to you to pick up on them. Here are 5 important signs to look for to figure out whether a guy likes you.
I was asked this question by Min Chan and a number of other people in the past so I finally decided to open and answer it.
Now, one thing I want to remind you about is that no two guys are the same, just like no two girls are the same. However, these 5 signs are just some of the common things that I’ve seen guys do to show a girl that they like them. The 1st sign is that he stares at you a lot. Yes, I know every stares but this kind of stare is a little bit different. For shy guys, they stare and stare and stare because they don’t know what to say or how to walk up to you. For non-shy guys, this is just their way of preparing for that interaction.
I know, sometimes a guy will stare and it will come off kind of creepy but if the guy that’s staring is one that you like, don’t hesitate to go up to him and talk to him. The 2nd sign is that a guy will tease you or come off acting like he doesn’t like you. Guys sometimes do this when they do in fact like you. It’s a weird guy thing where we act like we don’t care about something so no one will question our true feelings about it. Feelings, ah! We don’t like to talk about those. Some guys are just too scared to show them so if you do encounter this situation, pull the guy aside and ask him privately if he wants to go out with you. Because he’ll probably say yes. The 3rd sign is that he’s really eager to help you do anything you need to do.
And yes, I know sometimes these are the guys that get friend-zoned. But usually the guys that are willing to help you are the ones that like you. Â If he want to carry your books, walk you to class or sit and talk to you then those are clear indicators that he’s willing to put in work to get your attention. You may or may not like the fact that guys are willing to do this but don’t always write them off because deep down they are all good guys. The 4th sign is that he acts a little bit different with you than he does the other girls. He may be a little bit more laid back or choose to want to stand around you than everyone else.
Not every guy is going to make it clear that likes you but if he is giving you some kind of special treatment then that means he probably does and he’s keeping it low key. If you encounter this situation, just do everything you can to make him feel comfortable so he can open up to you. And the 5th sign is that he’s always trying to make one on one plans with you. Now I’ve seen a lot of guys do this and when they go out on a date with the girl, they freeze up.
If he tells you that he’s up for anything, whether that’s talking on the phone for a few hours or walking around the block 658 times, he’s probably looking for the right opportunity to show you that he likes you. Most of the time, not all the time though girls will wait for the guy to make the first move even though they see the guy is interested in them. Girls, I respect your right to be traditional about things but if you see a guy that really likes you and he’s just not doing the right thing, give him a little push and something to work with. Look for a few of those signs, maybe start the conversation or dare I say, ask him out?
What do you guys think though, what are some other signs that a guy likes a girl? Leave your comments below so we can talk about it. If you haven’t already, check out my other video here called 5 Signs a Girl Likes You and leave a comment there letting me know if those things are true. There are lots of great guys out there who sometimes get nervous and they just need you to help them unlock what’s holding them back.
Because the guy that honestly likes you is going to do everything he can to make sure the two of you are happy together.