For guys, it can be hard to figure out if a girl is actually into you. Sometimes the girl will act like she doesn’t even though she does, say things that contradict how she’s feeling and wait till the end of days for you to make the first move. Follow these five tips and suggestions to read her body language and verbal statements to know how to act in this situation.
What signs do girls use to show that they like you?
Heya playas, if you’re in middle school, high school or just trying to figure out whether a girl likes you, there are plenty of things that she does to show this off. And it’s up to you to pick up on them. Here are five important signs to look for to figure out whether or not a girl likes you.
I was asked this question by Bruce Wayne and I know there are plenty of videos out there explaining how girls show off that they like guys but I wanted to go deeper into why she does what she does. The first indicator is that she challenges you or tries to test you. By this I mean that she’ll make some comments that you may think come off as bitchy but what she’s really trying to do is see if you can handle her. What she really wants is to see if you’re truly interested in her.
Most guys see this challenge and just back off which helps her separate the weak guys from the strong guys. If she’s putting up a bit of a tough front, tease her for it. That’ll show her that you’re not going to back down just because she’s acting the way she is. Plus if she’s doing this, it’s a huge indicated that she’s interested. The second indicator is that she’s constantly touching up her looks. Most girls put on makeup and get dressed up because it makes them feel good but they also know that it helps in attracting guys. If you’re talking to a girl and she’s constantly pushing her hair back or fixing her clothes, then that means that she’s trying to primp herself up for you.
All animals do this to attract their mates. Hell, the male peacock shows off his gigantic feathers just to get the females to say “Did you girl see the size of his feathers?” O M G. Â The third indicator is that she mentions that she has a boyfriend or she asks you if you have a girlfriend. Sometimes girls make up that they have a boyfriend just to scare off creeps, sometimes they actually have a boyfriend but if it’s not one of those two situations and she tells you she has a boyfriend it’s because she wants to know how you’ll react.
Her goal is to make you work for her. To make sure you’re after her for her and not just to *click click* with her. If she ask you if you have a girlfriend that’s her way of finding out whether or not there any other females in the way of what she wants. If the girlfriend question comes up and then she says she has a boyfriend that might just be her defense mechanism to not make her seem alone or desperate.
The fourth indicator, she creates situations for you to ask her out. Most girls wanna be swept off their feet but they don’t want to be the ones that ask you out so they’ll create a situation for you to do it. Lots of guys are oblivious to this. If she’s telling you things like she’s bored or that she doesn’t have any plans she’s waiting for you to ask her out.
Use these situations to create the magic that she’s looking for. Chances are she’s gonna want to tweak the date in her own way but in her mind she still had nothing to do with it. The fifth indicators, she studies your face with her eyes. Sometimes maintaining eye contact can be kind of awkward. But if she’s into you, she’s going to be looking you up and down. When you talk to her, see where her eyes go. If she’s looking up at your eyes and then down to your lips then chances are she’s waiting for you to kiss her. And the perfect way to go into this is to start talking about something and then hold strong eye contact with her.
Then look down slowly at her lips and let your words just kind of drift off… And in that one second of science smile, and kiss her. But I’m interested to hear what you guys have to say. What other signs do girls give off to show that they like someone? Leave your comment below so we can talk about it. The key here is to be observant and opportunistic. Lots of times guy see girls making these signs and think in their heads, oh man she’s really into me but they don’t do anything about it. She’s waiting for you to pull the trigger to make that spark happen. Look for these five signs and get that girl.
As always guys, love and peace.